Drawn, Not Driven: Tuning Your Ear to God’s Kindness

Learning to separate God’s loving voice from shame’s voice is a key part of healing your internal love language. If you treat shame as if it were God, you will always feel unsafe with Him. But when you begin to recognize, “That harsh, condemning tone is not my Father,” you can choose which voice to partner with. You can pause and ask, “Who is talking to me right now—love or shame?” and then align with the voice that draws you, not the one that drives you.