YOU’VE BEEN CHOSEN

June is here—and with it comes a focus that can stir a mix of emotions for many women.

In America, this is the month where we celebrate Father’s Day. For some, that brings joy and gratitude. For others, it brings questions, silence, or even pain. But no matter what your experience has been, this month we are anchoring ourselves in one truth: the only “HIM” that defines your worth is God Himself.

Our theme for this month is H.I.M.—Holy, Internal, Measures.

Holy—set apart, divine, and rooted in God’s truth about who you are.
Internal—everything you need has already been placed within you by your Creator.
Measures—your worth was determined by God, not people, and His measurement is final.

Before we go any further this month, we must start here: you’ve been chosen.

There is a question many women carry quietly, even if they never say it out loud: “Will I be chosen?” It shows up in relationships, in opportunities, in rooms we enter and even in the way we view ourselves. But what happens when the answer to that question has already been settled?

God never left your identity up for discussion. Before anyone formed an opinion about you—before acceptance or rejection ever became part of your experience—He made a decision. You were chosen.

Strategies

This week, the strategy is not about becoming someone new, but about dismantling the habit of seeking confirmation from the wrong sources.

Pay attention to where you feel the need to prove yourself. Notice the moments you overextend, overexplain, or overperform just to feel secure. These are often indicators that you are trying to earn what God has already established.

Instead of responding from that place, pause and ask yourself: “What has God already decided about me?” Then choose to move from that truth, even if it feels unfamiliar.

Living as someone who is chosen will require you to release the need for constant reassurance. It will also require you to trust that what God has for you does not require you to compete for it.

Connections

When we are disconnected from God’s voice, we naturally become more sensitive to people’s responses. Silence feels like rejection. Delay feels like denial. And we begin to interpret our worth through inconsistent human behavior.

But connection with God stabilizes you.

It reminds you that your identity is not determined by who acknowledges you, who includes you, or who walks away. It anchors you in something far more consistent—God’s unchanging decision about who you are.

As we move through this month—especially one that highlights “fatherhood”—God is inviting you to reconnect with Him not just as Creator, but as Father.

This week, focus on reconnecting intentionally. Not just asking God for what you need, but sitting long enough to be reminded of who you are.

Because when you are truly connected to Him, you stop needing others to confirm what He has already declared.

Words

“I am chosen by God.”

This is not a statement to repeat casually—it is a truth to live from.

When you say it, let it challenge every thought that tells you that you are behind, overlooked, or not enough. Let it interrupt the patterns that cause you to seek validation in places that were never meant to define you.

Say it until it feels natural.
Say it until it feels true.
Say it until your life begins to reflect it.

I am chosen by God.
I am not overlooked.
I am not an afterthought.
I am intentional in the eyes of my Creator.

And I will live like it.